You know That Woman. She’s the one who somehow has her life together in a way that makes people suspicious. She’s got a signature scent, an emergency snack stash, and an arsenal of life advice that makes you question everything you thought you knew. And guess what? You might just be transforming into her. Here are the telltale signs—and why that’s actually kind of awesome.
1. You Own a Collection of “Good Towels”
There are now towels in your home that no one is allowed to touch unless a special occasion (or a long overdue visit of a secret crush) calls for it. Regular peasant towels for everyday use? Absolutely. But those plush, white, spa-like treasures? Forbidden territory. Welcome to the club.
2. You Have a Deep, Personal Relationship with a Beverage
Whether it’s coffee, tea, matcha, or an oddly specific oat milk latte, you have A Drink. People know not to speak to you before you’ve had it. You have opinions about it. And when someone makes it wrong, you take it as a personal attack.
3. You Start Carrying a Sweater Everywhere “Just in Case”
You are no longer at the mercy of unpredictable air conditioning. You see the world for what it is: a series of drafty spaces designed to test your resilience. And you? You came prepared. Bonus points if you also have a full first-aid kit tucked somewhere in your bag.
4. Your Houseplants Are Thriving (or at Least, You Keep Trying)
You’ve either developed a green thumb or at least have a collection of plants that are mostly alive. You talk to them. You have debates with yourself about whether they need more sun. If you’ve named them, congratulations, you’re officially That Woman.
5. You Have a “This Stays in the Car” Bag
This bag contains everything from reusable grocery totes to wet wipes, a spare pair of sunglasses, and a lip balm you will never remove from its designated spot. Need floss? Hand sanitizer? A tiny notebook for your sudden bursts of genius? It’s all there. You are prepared for anything.
6. You’ve Started Saying Things Your Mother Used to Say
“We have food at home.” “I’m not mad, just disappointed.” “Who touched the thermostat?!” If these phrases have exited your mouth unironically, congratulations, you are becoming your mother. But let’s be honest—she was onto something.
7. You Know Your Worth and Will Walk Away from a Bad Deal
That Woman doesn’t chase. Not a man, not a job, not a sale that isn’t at least 50% off. You recognize your value, and you will not be bamboozled. If they can’t meet your standards, well, that’s just too bad for them.
8. You Are the Queen of Random Life Hacks
You know that microwaving citrus before squeezing gets more juice out. You understand the magic of double-sided tape. You have an uncanny ability to remove stains that should be permanent. Your friends come to you for these secrets, and you enjoy every second of it.
9. You’ve Stopped Apologizing for No Reason
You used to say sorry when someone else bumped into you. Now? You reserve your apologies for actual mistakes. You’ve traded in needless “I’m sorrys” for power moves like “Excuse me” and “That doesn’t work for me.”
10. You Celebrate the Little Things Like a Full-On Holiday
Did you find a candle that smells exactly like autumn in a jar? Is your bed made with freshly washed sheets? Did you finally clean out the junk drawer? These are all wins worthy of a mini parade (or at least a smug moment of satisfaction). Life is short, and That Woman knows it’s all about the small joys.
Becoming That Woman isn’t about perfection; it’s about confidence, preparedness, and a strong appreciation for life’s little victories. So embrace it. Wear that cardigan like a badge of honor, sip your drink of choice with pride, and keep those fancy towels just for show. You’ve earned it.
Tell us in the comments – What is your score on the 10 pointers above?
About the author
Sohini Mishra
Founder - Women In The Hood